Saturday, February 21, 2009

Friday, February 20, 2009






Before I begin, allow me to introduce myself. My name is Kathy and I'm from State College, Pennsylvania. I'll also confess now and admit that I'm the one who managed to lock the key to my suitcase in same suitcase within 24 hours of arriving. I also managed to brush my teeth with tap water. All I can say is that is was a long trip.

Barb, in the previous post, told you a little about our morning on Friday. She didn't, however, mention the breakfast buffet. It's amazingly varied, and includes elements of English and Indian food. I find myself wondering whether I'll ever tire of Indian food, but so far, it seems unlikely. We eat enough at breakfast to last nearly all day (well, I do at least). But we did grab a small lunch today and I think it's worth mentioning if only because of the cost-for about 96 cents I bought two huge bottles of water, a samosa, and a vegetable puff. All were excellent and I do indeed feel rich.

Probably the most interesting and compelling part of the day for me was the Cultural Academy for Peace. I've typed in the URL because I know I won't be able to convey accurately all the details and you may want to learn more about this peace center. We had the pleasure of touring the academy, and meeting with the director and staff. Activites are focused on improving the lives of women. Beena is the leader of this group and she exudes a passion to empower women in any way she can. They sponsor a variety of programs and tomorrow we'll be visiting with women and children at a local domestic violence center run out the Cultural Academy for Peace. One of the programs was name Sakhi, and here is the description of that program: "Sakhi is a friend who supports, a mother who nurtures, and a sister who comforts every distressed woman and girl who come to her." Staff at the academy work to empower women at the grassroots level - they work to identify the needs of specific communities of women and then work with the women to identify and access resources. I love that staff at the center are often called in to train the police in gender sensitivity. I was so moved by the dedication evidenced at the center and by how they are able to accomplish so much with so little.

http://culturalacademy.org/about.html

It then seems somewhat ironic that we left the Cultural Academy for Peace to do yet more shopping. To be fair to us, many of us came with little clothing as we intended to purchase salwars and tunic to fit in as much as possible with the women here. So it was off to Fab India where all of us except Wendy managed to buy something to wear for ourselves (or for those of you back home). We ended the day with a fabulous dinner on a rooftop overlooking Cocci.

Finally, I have to mention the heat. It was hot. I'm talking hot, hot, hot. We're learning to drink a lot of water, wear cotton, and move slowly.

Friday, February 20, 2009

Our First Full Day on the Ground

Welcome the the Avenue Regent Hotel in Kochi, India! The capable and very courteous staff will be happy to assist you in all your travel needs, including cutting the locks off of your luggage when you realize that you have put them inside your very secure luggage.



All nine of my travelling companions have made it to Kochi- albeit some did not arrive until very late last night. Laura and I arrived on time with no flight issues other than an anticipated 9 hour wait in London at Heathrow airport. We are rethinking our return strategy which allows for a 12 hour layover in Mumbai on the return. Not sure what we are going to come up with but 9 hours was too long an there was shopping in Heathrow- not so Mumbai. It is time to introduce my fellow adventurerers. From left to right are Laura, Leslee who arrived with via Helsinki rather than Brussels, and Kathy.



















Here from left to right we have the back of Joyce's head, Tanya, and Amanda.








Here on the right is Wendy and a little better shot of Kathy - but not much.
My sister Laura, below-
And last but not least, Deanna our fearless leader for the trip.
So what do 10 women do first when they arrive in India? Shop, of course! Several of us who arrived earlier had already been to the silk shop to purchase fabric and order native garb and those of us who arrived later were not to be denied. We must have spent nearly three hours looking at combinations of cloth for making our shirt tops, pants and scarf sets. I think Deanna must have known to get us there before the store got busy because we had multiple assistants to help us with our selection and we shared our pictures from home with them and answered many questions about our lives.






Yes, we really did make that big pile of clothes for him to fold when we left.

We all had red smears on our foreheads when we left the shop.








There was more in the afternoon as we visited the Center for Peace and learned about the great things they are doing to help fight domestic violence in India, but that will have to wait until tomorrow since I am too tired to write. The sun sets here just like everywhere else and is just asbeautiful. Tomorrow a fashion show.... Peace out.

Monday, February 16, 2009

pre-game jitters

I have one more day to get my act together for this trip. Yesterday I worked on yet another proposal, washed clothes and went out for all those things that I hadn't had time to pick up at the store. I now have enough snacks to feed the entire coach section of the flight- at least between Chicago and London. I have no clothes packed yet , but at least we won't go hungry and of course I haved all my absolute essentials - at least 3 days worth of music to listen to on an ipod with only 8 hours of battery life, a paperback book to read, a couple of downloaded books to listen to, enough bug spray to clear all the mosquitos out of India, etc.
Bandaids- still need to pick up bandaids.
I still have to find and pack the clothes I think I will need but I am working down to the correct shoes via a process of elimination. I wear one pair for part of a day and see how they feel and they either go in the "maybe" pile of the "no go pile".
As usual, I am depending upon my organized sister to have all the really essential stuff that will really be important- like the itinerary of where we are going etc. I did make all my copies of my passport and ID's so if I lose anything I can still come up with something that will help to fill in the blanks. I am beginning to feel like Paddington the Bear with a tag on his jacket with his name and address in case he get's lost.
Next step- after work today is to find clothes and pack them...

Sunday, February 15, 2009

ready set go

This is the first posting of this blog and I hope those who read it will find it entertaining, thoughtful and maybe interesting.  My sister Laura and I are going off on a journey next Tuesday to the southern states in India with a group of women whom we have only met over Skype or the phone.  I think it will be a treat trip and I hope to use this as a way journal our experiences as we go along.  
So stay tuned and join us on this journey - let the fun begin.
barb